"PS9" (PS9)
12/20/2013 at 15:54 • Filed to: None
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"PS9" (PS9)
12/20/2013 at 15:54 • Filed to: None | 1
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But I'll share anyway. She had two kids already and one on the way (RED FLAG #1), Her family is shouty and yell-y (RED FLAG #2), Her ex's name is tattooed on her ankle, and has multiple felonies for cooking meth and illegally selling guns. And has murdered people in shootouts and shit (RED FLAG#3), Her favorite place for us to get it on? Her parents couch. With the parents home in the bedroom (I acquiesced to this one, so I deserve what I get here. But still...RED FLAG#4)
FINAL RED FLAG: Her kids loved me. Even her brother's kid loved me. They would attack me every time I came over. So that means I must be great father material, right? NOPE, to her, that must mean I'm some kind of pedophile. Okay. Motherfucking FLUUUUUSHED.
Sexual abuse pretty much tore my family apart, so that groundless accusation hurt me a lot, and is probably why I haven't dated in more than a year since.
EL_ULY
> PS9
12/20/2013 at 16:01 |
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this is funny as well :]
505Turbeaux
> PS9
12/20/2013 at 16:21 |
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jesus and you knew all that going in? I get the bat-shittiest but I am always blind till too late
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> 505Turbeaux
12/20/2013 at 16:27 |
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I knew about the preggo day one, the other stuff trickled out over time. Honestly, I was desperate. She was too, perhaps. It was the first person to show up in over a year, and I didn't want to be alone and celibate (like now for example...lol). I wanted to believe it could work, but we weren't at all compatible. The pedo accusation shattered the illusion hardcore, a hard earned wakeup call I thoroughly deserved. I don't know why kinja is making me use the mobile editor as I type this on a full blown PC, but I guess I deserve that too.
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> 505Turbeaux
12/20/2013 at 16:28 |
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come on Kinja, I get it, no need to double post me. Haven't I suffered enough!?
Cajun Ginger
> PS9
12/20/2013 at 16:32 |
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At least it wasn't her parents bed while they were on the couch in the other room.
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505Turbeaux
> PS9
12/20/2013 at 16:33 |
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ha please dismiss one. I certainly didnt hit the button twice. My notifications doubled too!
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> Cajun Ginger
12/20/2013 at 16:44 |
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Mom walked out one time while I was fingering her. Said nothing. Just kept on going to the bathroom and walked back to bed after.
The girl scolded me later for stopping.
Yeah, thats right, I should have kept on jackhammering it even if mom caught a glimpse. I honestly believe she wanted her mom to watch her have sex with someone. Holy bat guano, batman!
Redd, the RX-7 that could
> PS9
12/20/2013 at 18:54 |
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Holy shit dude, I thought you were just telling us about some batshit babe that you'd heard of, not that you actually dated this girl. I really don't know what to tell you. Damn. Yeah next time a red flag comes up, maybe step back and think about what all that means in regards to the mental stability of her and her family. It's perfectly fine to date, fall in love, and marry a girl with a troubled past, but you have to make sure she's fully aware of these problems, and capable of taking the necessary steps to living a controlled and balanced life.
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> Redd, the RX-7 that could
12/20/2013 at 19:03 |
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Relationships are hard. Really hard. Impossible without two compatible and passionately committed people.
I'd been alone for years before I met her. Been alone for a year since. I just really wanted it to work. I was desperate for it. But red flags aside, My intuition was telling me this was never going to work. I didn't want to believe it. I was afraid of going back to being single and celibate for who knows how goddamned long, but the pedo comment just shattered that illusion. It's better to be by yourself than with someone you shouldn't be messing with.
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Redd, the RX-7 that could
> PS9
12/20/2013 at 19:15 |
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I've been there, desperation is powerful thing. I guess I missed you saying that it happened a year ago. It's good that you have everything straightened out now.